Family Memoirs
Making Toast
by Roger Rosenblatt
Cold Moon: On Life, Love, and Responsibility
by Roger Rosenblatt
Mieke Eerkin's All Ships Follow Me
Memoirs about Art
Laura Cummings: Vanishing Velasquez (I have read it four times!!)
Everything is Happening: Journey into a Painting, by Michael Jacobs
Jonathan Brown: In the Shadow of Velasquez
Another moving book about a picture: The Angel on the Left Bank: The Secrets of Delacroix’s Parisian Masterpiece
Terry tempest Williams' LEAP!!
Daniel Mendelsohn's An Odyssey
Mayumi Oda's Sarasvati's Gift: The Autobiography of Mayumi Odaartist, Activist, and Modern Buddhist Revolutionary
Japan
Frederick Schodt's My Heart Sutra: A World in 260 Characters
Roger's Unmasking of an American
Rebecca Otowa's At Home in Japan
Marie Mockett's Where the Dead Pause
Memoirs in the World
Why Fish Don't Exist
The Accidental Terrorist
Sy Montgomery’s Soul of an Octopus: A Surprising Exploration into the Wonder of Consciousness
Christof Koch’s Consciousness: Conversations of a Romantic Reductionist
Douglas Hofstadter’s I Am A Strange Loop
Peter Wohllenben’s The Hidden Life of Trees
Patti Smith's Year of the Monkey
Schadenfreude, A Love Story: Me, the Germans, and 20 Years of Attempted Transformations, Unfortunate Miscommunications, and Humiliating Situations That Only They Have Words For
by Rebecca Schuman (Goodreads Review)
This memoir is beautifully voiced. Original, fun and really hilarious at times too. For me, Schuman is a cross between Dave Barry and Mrs Maisel. It kept me smiling and laughing the entire read.
The book spans a long time--from senior year in high school until she is 38, about to have a baby. Memoirs with long time spans are tough to pull off. I am now starting work on a language memoir of my own (Japanese) and hoping to study with Schuman at Stanford Continuing Studies. While I was reading, I kept wondering, "is this really okay to make fun of Germans like this?" My husband says it is allowed... She is so hilarious --especially when she went back to Berlin again in grad school to try to become fluent yet again. And I loved how her passion for Kafka propelled the entire life story-- laughing when every single German person took time to remind her that, yeah, Kafka is not German!
The funny parts were funny, but I have to say I preferred the serious parts. She was excellent on Heidegger and Wittgenstein and I would have wanted a lot more of that. I suspect there was more but maybe that was edited out. What a shame that would have been as those parts really captured my interest. I also appreciated her long struggle with trying to get tenure. Her struggle was long but the descriptions did not drag on and in fact, it was only the very last part of the book.
I was happy it had a happy ending too.
Now, I am off to see what else she is writing.
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Crying in H Mart
by Michelle Zauner
One of the most talented writers I have met at UCLA Extension recently raved about this book, so I had to read it immediately. It's been on my radar since it came out... though I had not heard of Zauner's band till after reading the book. A very moving account of the author's relationship with her mother, it spanned from her childhood and teenage years till after her mother's death and the years after. During the illness, at one point, I started to think if I ever doubted that having kids was meaningful, all I had to do was read this book as I was deeply moved by the author's care and devotion to her mother. She is an extraordinarily kind and loving human being. The best daughter. She even managed to make her wedding be about her mother over her own self... I loved her story and admired her character so much.
The book was a bit slow-reading for me, not because I wasn't interested, but rather because it never brought much outside reference to the story. Many people will appreciate that since you are always right there in story, it creates a very cinematic experience... And this book is incredibly evocative and emotionally compelling like the best cinema. That said, for me, I would have loved more history and context about certain aspects of Korean culture she was writing about-- especially about family relations, the language and more about food. I am imagining a cookbook at least someday!! I will never forget the book. Like the reviewer in the Chicago Review of Books, I also expected to cry (which I did) but did not expect to find myself deep in self-reflection: "In this book, Zauner brings us all in so close that we’re left with no other option but to examine our own lives just as closely."
The Magical Language of Others
by E.J. Koh
As I was reading, in some ways it felt the exact opposite to Crying in H Mart--in story, but also in writing styles.
The Collected Schizophrenias: Essays
by Esmé Weijun Wang
This book is a tour de force. It is a book of essays that works on the reader like the best memoir you have ever read. I stayed up late two nights in a row because I could not put it down. As a person who is not fundamentally interested in psychiatry and issues of pharmacology, I resisted buying the book because life is short and there are so many books sitting on my nightstand. But after reading a short article about the author, I felt impressed and wanted to read more and then could not stop reading. This book has the best of everything non-fiction: gorgeous and precise sentences, thought provoking ideas, a lot of research that leads to insights and a world-opening artistic vision. Need I say more? I love the chapter on Chimayo best.
Fragrant Rice: My Continuing Love Affair with Bali [Includes 115 Recipes]
by Janet De Neefe
Rumours of Spring: A Girlhood in Kashmir
by Farah Bashir
In Other Words, Jhumpa Lahiri
It is an interesting premise: Pulitzer Prize-winning novelist gives up her language of strength and power to embark on a journey of writing in another language... one in which she is not proficient at yet. I once knew a Polish writer whose English was so fluent that I never once caught a hint that it was not his native tongue. A modern-day Joseph Conrad? A genius who one day informed me that he had decided to give up English.... why, I asked? Well, according to him, he was bored thinking about the things that people thought of in English. In French, he declared, the intellectual possibilities were wide open. the language he thought and dreamt in grew out of is reading--and if he preferred reading French books then I figured it only made sense he would want to think in that language as well. I feel the same about Japanese. I prefer myself when I was thinking and reading in that language. And so Lahiri's choice makes sense... in a nutshell, she fell in love. With a language, with its literature and its people.
Fragrant Rice: My Continuing Love Affair with Bali [Includes 115 Recipes]
by Janet De Neefe
All Strangers Are Kin, by Zora O'Neill
To make people laugh in a foreign language. What a wonderful life goal! Languages all have their personalities--and so in many ways when you switch languages you become another person.
Bird of Paradise: How I Became Latina
by Raquel Cepeda
Heart Radical: A Search for Language, Love, and Belonging
by Anne Liu Kellor (no review)
Taste: My Life through Food
by Stanley Tucci
Educated
by Tara Westover